Grow Up!

Titus 2:7-8 NAU in all things show yourself to be an example of good deeds, with purity (moral soundness/integrity) in doctrine, dignified (proper behavior), sound in speech(speak healthy words) which is beyond reproach (can’t be criticized) , so that the opponent will be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us.

Paul had left Titus in Crete to set up church leadership (1:5). The group of the circumcision faithfully followed Paul around to “correct” his converts. This group would bring in false teaching into the church (1:10-11). Spiritually immature Christians were starting to follow man’s legalistic teaching and Jewish myths (1:14). Sadly the spiritually mature Christians were not teaching the younger solid biblical truths and leading them by example, like they should have.Sound biblical doctrine was no longer being taught in this church.

Unfortunately, across America this same thing is happening. Churches are watering down the gospel to be less offensive to the church hopper and unsaved. Few are studying the Bible on their own. Spiritually mature men and women needs to step up and show the younger (by example) how to study the Bible. This needs to be done so they will be biblically sound in their teaching and so they will not be blown around by every wind of doctrine. (Eph 4:14)

It is time to grow up in Christ. A six month old baby sucking on a bottle is cute. What about when that baby turns the age of 5,10, 25, 50? Would that be cute? Absolutely not! You would question why they are not growing properly. This is exactly what many “Christians” are doing these days. They get saved but there is no spiritual growth. Churches across America are filled with 20/30/50 year old babies.

It is time to grow up!

Ephesians 4:14-16 As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming; but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in all aspects into Him who is the head, even Christ, from whom the whole body, being fitted and held together by what every joint supplies, according to the proper working of each individual part, causes the growth of the body for the building up of itself in love.

Press On

In Genesis, chapter thirty-seven, Joseph’s brothers threw him into a pit, out of jealousy. Joseph was sold to traders that were passing through on their way to Egypt, for twenty shekels of silver (v. 28) Chapter thirty-nine picks back up on the narrative of Joseph’s success as a slave in Potiphar’s house. Potiphar was an Egyptian officer of Pharaoh, the captain of the bodyguard (v. 1). Joseph was purchased to work as a common slave. Potiphar noticed Joseph’s work and showed favor to him by promoting him from an ordinary slave to one with power and high responsibility. Everything was entrusted into Joseph’s hands, so Potiphar did not worry about anything except the food he ate.

While Potiphar is gone, his wife starts tempting Joseph to lie with her. She was very persistent and continued to plead with him to “lie with me”, but Joseph continues to avoid her. He could have had the thought that if he did this it could affect his job or his masters trust, but Joseph’s main concern was “how then could I do this great evil and sin against God?” (v. 9) Joseph made the mistake to be in the house alone with her. She tried again to seduce him but he refused. She grabbed a hold of his garment and pleaded the more, “lie with me”, but he fled leaving his garment with her. She held on to it and screamed for the other servants. ‘That Hebrew came to lie with me and to make sport (laugh) of us, but instead I screamed and he fled.’ (v. 11–16) She held on to the garment until her husband came home. Having no witnesses there, it came down to her word against his.

When Potiphar heard this, he was hot with anger. It does not really direct who he was mad at. Was it Joseph or his wife? Potiphar had every right to have Joseph killed, but it seems that Potiphar knew that it was his wife’s fault. So Joseph was thrown it prison instead, but it seems that it was not long before God allowed Joseph to find favor with the chief jailer.

Joseph pressed on; refusing to let any past events in his life to control his future. In the same way, Christians should forget what is behind them and press on forward to what lies ahead (Phil 3:13). If anyone had the right to be tempted with bitterness about the past, it was Joseph. (brothers hated him and sold him, wrongfully accused by Potiphar’s wife, cup bearer forgot about him, seems like God abandoned him,…) Dwelling on past misfortunes takes one’s eyes off what God is trying to do in the present and future. Joseph’s eyes were so fixed on God, that when temptation came, he was focused on the consequences of his sin and the potential damage to his relationship with a holy God.

All of Joseph’s troubles were all part of God’s sovereign plan to preserve Israel from a future famine. As Joseph was in this prison, he was able to interpret a baker’s and cupbearer’s dream, with God’s help. Accurately interpreting these dreams allowed Joseph the opportunity to interpret Pharaoh’s dream warning of the future famine that was coming to the land. Throughout all the misfortunes in Joseph’s life, he did not let them control how he was going to live in the present. Joseph pressed on through the misfortunes instead laying around in his own self pity.

Fork in the road

News about Solomon’s wisdom and his kingdom seemed to travel quickly to other countries. It is interesting how Queen Sheba traveled with her army to speak to Solomon, just because she had heard about his kingdom and his wisdom. She came to test him and/or to give him hard riddles to answer. After all of her attempts, she was speechless because he was able to answer all of her questions. Through out her encounter, I am sure that Solomon gave credit to God for his wisdom. This probably brought up more questions about God in general. I might be reading into the story a little, but I would bet that every question she had about God was probably answered. As she left Solomon’s kingdom, she was left at a fork in the road spiritually. Should she accept this God or should she continue down her road of serving her god(s) or maybe no god.

The same should be true with us, as we meet people in our everyday lives, we should be a ‘fork in the road’ to people spiritually. They need to hear about Christ and be left with a decision: “Should I accept Christ or do I reject him”. We need to be ready to give a defense about our faith (see 1 Peter 3:15). I have found that many non-Christians have one or two questions about God that trouble them. Well meaning Christians in their past could not answer these questions for them. Usually, once those questions are answered, man-made walls are knocked down and they are left with a decision, “What do I do with Jesus?” There are some that use these questions as a way to heckle Christians, because they have seen that most can not answer them, but there are some that need that wall knocked down so they are able to believe. So hopefully as we live our lives we can be a “fork in the road”, so people will be left with a choice about Christ: Should I accept him or do I reject him?

How about you. Have you accepted him or rejected him?


1 Corinthians 15:1-6 Now I make known to you, brethren, the gospel which I preached to you, which also you received, in which also you stand, by which also you are saved, if you hold fast the word which I preached to you, unless you believed in vain. For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received, that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried, and that He was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that He appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. After that He appeared to more than five hundred brethren at one time, most of whom remain until now, but some have fallen asleep;


1 Peter 3:15 but sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence;

2 Timothy 2:15 Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth.